Friday 10 January 2014

28th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY, SATURDAY 11th JANUARY 2014 05:37 GMT

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1. THIS DAY IN WORLD WAR 2 (11th January 1944)
On the Russian Front...
3rd Guards Army and 5th Shock Army of Soviet 4th Ukrainian Front attack the German IV Korps and XVII Korps in the Dniepr River bend

In Moscow...
The Soviet Union unilaterally announces that the 1939 partition line in Poland will form the permanent western boundary of the Soviet Union

In Italy...
Count Ciano, Emilia De Bono, and three others involved with deposing Mussolini are executed in the Italian Social Republic.
US 5th Army attack Cervaro with strong artillery and air support

In the Pacific...
Japanese vessel Yahiko Maru is sunk by USN submarine Seawolf 
Japanese vessel Erie Maru is sunk by USN submarine Sturgeon 

US 7th Marine Regiment at Cape Gloucester on New Britain advance south of Aogiri Ridge and Hill 150

In the Indian Ocean...
IJN cruiser Kuma sunk by RN submarine Tally Ho off Malaya

Today's Air Raids...
Oschersleben, Halberstadt and targets of opportunity in Germany by US 8th Air Force
V-Weapons sites, Northern France by RAF 2nd Tactical Air Force
Piraeus, Greece by US 15th Air Force
Falconara, Fabriano, and military targets, Italy by US 12th Air Force
Wotje Atoll and Maloelap Atoll offshore minelaying by USN aircraft
Maloelap Atoll by US 7th Air Force
Alexishafen, Bogadjim, and military targets, New Guinea by US 5th Air Force
Cape St. George, New Ireland by US AirSols
Suichwan Airfield, China by Japanese aircraft
Military targets, Burma by US 10th Air Force

2. TODAY IN MY LIFE 
Quality Missus Time
Blogging/Bookwriting

Twitter Followers = 1,700 (no change)
Nonfollowed eliminated = 1

Unfollowers eliminated = 0

New followers = 1
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3. TODAY'S SELF-OBSERVATION
You might be forgiven for thinking that since I am caring for a mentally ill wife, our marriage is a tragic shadow of what it should be. The reality is the exact opposite - the marriage is a source of abundant joy! Certainly completely unlike any other marriage I know, it is nevertheless spectacularly successful and robust, having endured a number of traumas that would end other marriages. 

At the core, the formula of success is simple: she absolutely worships me, and I like that! Many guys I know would find that kind of adoration suffocating, but I love it! Secondly, we are completely mutually independent. She is, in what is a stagnant time for my Practice, chief breadwinner. Clueless about housework and a compulsive hoarder, as well as suffering paranoid delusions, she is utterly dependent on me to keep house and look after her at home.

There have been I might add, plenty of times when she has carried me before becoming ill, most notably in 1998 when I had a breakdown and she was at one point caring for the children single-handed when I had severe anger management issues and was completely emotionally unprepared to be a father.

Thirdly we are both quick to confess and forgive - in fact Missus is prone to say sorry when she hasn't done anything wrong. In fact she needs that regular reassurance that she hasn't done anything wrong.  

Not only has the marriage survived all the traumas we have gone through, it has enabled us to ultimately flourish! We are much better and happier people than we were when we started. If I had known what would happen beforehand, I would have run from the altar screaming, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and I am certainly that.

4. TODAY'S QUESTION FOR YOU
What makes your relationships strong? 

5. TODAY'S WEATHER IN BRADFORD
Dry with mainly clear skies throughout, but freezing fog will descend overnight

A moderate westerly wind will gradually peter out to negligible in the evening
Max Temp = 4 degC
Min Temp = 1 degC
Sunrise at 08:20
Sunset at 16:10

6. TODAY'S ONELINER
The main difference between men and women is what they use the tissues for when they watch a movie on their own.  : D

7. NOW THAT'S FUNNY!  
Adam Hills on the Australian and other accents 

8. TRIVIA
A cat called Dusty has the record for the most kittens. She had more than 420 kittens in her lifetime. 

9. ZEN WISDOM
Encouragement means to plant the seed of courage in the lives of others. It is an act of regeneration. 

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